ual health advice needed?

Hi, i wonder if any ual health therapist could please help me. I have been married for three years, and as typical of Asian culture, I was expected to live with my in-laws. To cut a long story short, this has not been a good experience for me due to the lack of privacy and constant interferring, especially from my mother in law. My husband and I have never since day one been alone in the house, nor has our marriage ever been given a chance to flourish. Due to the injustices I have faced and am still facing in that house, I find it almost impossible to be intimate with my husband. I never crave for with him - All I want to do is turn my back and sleep. I am angry at the way he has let his mother constantly make me unhappy, and his lack of effort in getting a stable job and finding us somewhere to live. Since giving birth to my son a year ago, she has completely took over, i.e., taking my baby from my bedside, barging in my room without knocking (leading me to give up feeding), demanding that he be brought to her all the time. My husband has not said a single word to her, and does not even try to reure or comfort me. I feel the respect, and maybe my love for him is draining, if not already drained out. I want to resolve this problem, and get excited to make love to my husband again, but I just can't seem to do it. I would not be suprised if he goes somewhere else soon. I genuinely want to make things better, but I don't know what to do to rid myself of this anger I feel. The only answer I am seeing at the moment is divorce. Any suggestions are greatly appreciated.