Am I being overly sensitive ?

Ok soo my friend she knows my deepest darkest secrets ...but she talks to me like im annoying And im not annoying Im just quiet ...she talks to me like i talk to my brother some times ......an thts bad ! but she told one of our other friends who i don't know really well just started hanging out with her She told her my house was messy an their where anamales everywhere an it was dirty with poop everywhere ....THERE IS NOT MY HOUSE IS NICE AN CLEAN I ONLY HAVE A CAT !!!!!!!!! 1 CAT 1!!! But she treats me like im a kid ...we are the same age ...an she interdiction me as the un-social one Ive been throu **** im shy kill me !,,,,,So should i just do what a good friend does an live with it or what ? She is a good friend she cares an we have tons of fun together ....but idk ...i said she hurt my feeling to her an she apologized but she still talks to me in a way tht pisses me off nt like shes better but like she owns me .....should i just get touger an talk back a lil mor e...or what help ?....btw if i let it slid one day im might bit$# slap her upside her head ! were 13 btw